Add a --bind flag (default 127.0.0.1) to membershipd that controls which
network interface both the control-plane HTTP API and the embedded NATS data
plane listen on. Use 0.0.0.0 to expose the stack to the LAN so remote peers
(phones, other PCs) can connect; keep the default for a loopback-only dev stack.
embeddednats gains StartHost(storeDir, host, port) for explicit interface
control; Start stays a backward-compatible wrapper (host "" = nats default
0.0.0.0) so the playground and tests are untouched.
Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>
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